FOOD
In the interest of
good dietetics we request that no gum, candy
or food be sent with the campers. Please help us avoid problems
in this regard by explaining this request to your son before
he departs for camp.
NO
PACKAGE POLICY
We feel that packages
interfere with the camp experience and that the focus on them
leads to unintentional competition within the cabin groups and
sometimes even hurt feelings. Therefore, "care packages"
are only accepted in the event of a camper birthday. All others
will be returned to sender. Any costs will be charged to the
camper's store account. Please tell family and friends! NECESSARY
items such as a camper's forgotten shoes, tennis racquet, extra
glasses, etc., may be sent to your child c/o Hank and Townsend
Birdsong. Any medications should be sent to the attention of
the Camp Nurse. Flat envelopes for sending such items as a magazine
or newspaper articles should be less than $3.25 postage. Envelopes
over this postage amount will be returned to sender.
ACTIVITY
PLAN
We are not asking
you to complete an activity form at this time. However, please
talk with your camper about the activities in which he may want
to participate. Be sure to complete and return the riding registration
form by May 15th.
CLOTHING
& EQUIPMENT
High Rocks does not
specify a camp uniform. We recommend plain, durable clothes
that are washable rather than requiring dry cleaning. Please
do not send expensive clothes, or new, unwashed clothes. We
try our best, but camp life is not easy on designer clothing!
Laundry is a weekly service, at no additional charge to campers.
If an item of clothing should not go into a dryer, it is the
camper's responsibility not to send it to the laundry. It is
important that all items of clothing and equipment be plainly
and indelibly marked with the camper's name. Iron-on name labels
will not stay on properly.
Campers should leave
expensive cameras, watches, Gameboys, and radios at home. Camp
does not assume responsibility for lost articles. Our climate
is apt to include some cool weather, especially in June; our
days are usually mild, with nights requiring two or three blankets.
Some boys, especially the younger ones, have occurrences of
enuresis at camp (bed-wetting). The change in climate can be
one factor affecting this. If a boy has a known or anticipated
pattern of enuresis, we request that he bring a protective sheet,
and also suggest that he bring at least two extra bed sheets.
It would also be helpful if you would notify us in advance.
Personal camping
gear should include a suitable pack (we recommend a pack with
a frame, not day pack or book bag type), and a lightweight sleeping
bag (with stuff sack), preferably with synthetic fill. The sleeping
bag filling should not retain moisture and should be able to
dry quickly. Down-filled or cotton-filled sleeping bags are
not recommended. There is little backpacking in the two week
session, so don't worry too much about high tech gear for that
session. A basic backpack is available at camp for all sessions.
A coated nylon poncho or raincoat will be necessary at camp.
Thin plastic ponchos or raincoats will not survive even the
first rainstorm. Gore-Tex, or other waterproof-breathable raingear
is another suitable, but more expensive option. Boots or hard-soled
tie shoes with heels are needed for horseback riding. A hiking
boot can double as a riding boot. If your son is dependent on
eyeglasses, it is best to send a spare pair to camp in case
one set gets lost. These can be kept in the office if you wish.
There are several excellent sources for equipment.
From personal knowledge
we recommend:
Diamond Brand handles
several good lines of equipment and is located near High Rocks.
Let us know if we can be of further help in planning your equipment
or clothing needs. A checklist for attaching to the inside top
of the footlocker will be enclosed with the spring mailing.
One final note: a
camper does not need and should not bring a knife or ax to camp.
For shipment of clothes
and bedding we recommend a footlocker and duffel bag. Both can
be checked on plane tickets. Please keep
the trunk/footlocker size to no larger than 14 inches high and
36 inches wide.
SUGGESTED
CLOTHING AND EQUIPMENT
We recommend that
you use this list as a guide for the clothes and equipment that
you bring to camp. All clothing, including shoes, athletic equipment
such as tennis racket, fishing gear, etc., should be clearly
marked.
- 8 T-shirts
- 2 long sleeved
polypropylene tops
- 8 pair undershorts
- 8 pair athletic
socks
- 2 pair hiking
socks (not cotton)
- 5 pair long pants
(jeans or khakis)
- 5 pair short
pants
- 2 bathing suits
- 2 pair pajamas
- 1 fleece jacket
- 1 raincoat or
poncho
- 2 pair tennis
shoes
- 1 pair hiking
shoes (broken in), preferably lace high top, with heel
- 1 pair "Teva"
style sandals (with heel strap, not flip-flops) or shoes to
get wet
- 2 sets of sheets
(single bed)
- 1 pillow
- 2 pillow cases
- 2 blankets (unzipped
sleeping bag can serve as second blanket)
- 5 towels
- 3 washcloths
- 1 lightweight
sleeping bag preferably dacron-filled (not cotton or down
filled)
- 1 waterproof stuffsack
for sleeping bag
- 1 laundry bag
- toilet articles-
comb, toothbrush, toothpaste, shampoo, etc. (any deodorant
should be roll-on type, not spray) in small ditty bag, marked
with name
- 1 flashlight (and
extra batteries)
- 2 Nalgene water
bottles (32 oz) or canteens
- 1 roll-on or lotion
bug repellent (no sprays)
- 1 bookbag / daypack
(used for day trips)
- 1 backpack (either
internal or external frame) -
we have packs at camp
- 1 closed cell
sleeping pad for backpacking optional
- 1 bike water bottle
optional
- 1 tennis racquet
and 1 unopened can of tennis balls optional
- fishing gear (Single
hook lures only, please. Please de-barb hooks or we
can do it for them) optional
- camera and film
optional
- soccer shinguards
optional
- writing paper,
pen, envelopes (stamped and pre-addressed) optional
PREPARING
YOUR SON FOR GOING AWAY You
can do much to prepare your son for going away to camp, especially
if it is his first camp experience. Talking honestly with your
son about what to expect can ease the transition from home to
camp. Many boys expect camp to be fun all the time. While your
son should expect to have fun, you can tell him that he will
at times feel many different emotions: elation at discovering
new friends, fear of confronting a new situation, disappointment
when a game or project hasn't gone well, and even sadness to
leave friends at the end of a session. Homesickness may occur,
especially if your son is young or living away for the first
time. Homesickness is neither a dislike of camp nor evidence
of camper maladjustment. It is normal. Discussing this with
your son and letting him know that this is a common feeling
will make it easier to deal with should it occur. If it does,
the most appropriate action is to let your son stay at camp,
except in very unusual cases. Our camp staff members are trained
to work with homesick boys, and within a day or two most boys
have completely recovered. If you receive a letter that is less
than positive at the beginning of camp, don't worry too much-
homesickness is usually over by the time the letter reaches
home. In your letters to camp, it may be helpful to ask about
experiences at camp rather than to dwell on happenings at home.
Try to put your own feelings of separation into proper perspective,
and then write your son an encouraging response.
Express your confidence
in your son's ability to cope and that the staff is there to
help. It is usually a good idea to avoid making references about
how much you will miss your son and it helps if parents avoid
talking about what they will be doing while their son is away.
If you receive a letter that is cause for concern, don't hesitate
to notify us by phone. Since gaining independence from family
is a developmental task that all must face at some point or
other, camp can be a positive step in the life of a camper.
SHIPPING
TRUNKS
Due to the increasing
unpredictability of airlines and luggage handling at airports,
we are suggesting that trunks be shipped to High Rocks by UPS
or other commercial carrier. Please note that UPS does not cover
damages to a trunk/duffel unless it is in a separate container;
only the "contents" of what is being shipped will
be insured. We will ship trunks and duffels home at your request,
however, we do not provide boxes. Charges will be added to the
camper's account.
OPENING
DAY
Campers should plan
to arrive after 9:00 a.m. on the appropriate day, preferably
by 12:30 PM. Due to counselor staff meetings and much needed
time off prior to each of the sessions, we are not able to accommodate
campers before the opening day. Upon
arrival you will be met halfway up the camp road and given some
information about your son's cabin, counselor, and check-in
process. We may ask you to wait a bit until the upper parking
lot is less full before going on up and unloading. Once given
the o.k. to proceed up the road, you will be met at the top
in our main parking lot where we will unload your vehicle and
walk you and your son to the camp office for check-in. A staff
member will then help you check in at the infirmary (leaving
any medicines with the nurse) and then will walk you and your
son to his cabin to meet his cabin counselor. Your son's trunk
and other belongings will be transported to the cabin by the
time you arrive to meet the counselor.
It is certainly fine
to help get your son settled in a bit; however, we do ask that
you stay only a very short time (10 minutes at most) for several
reasons. First, it is easier for the boys to adjust to camp
if the transition is quick; the less you linger, the easier
it is. Secondly, we have exceedingly limited parking, and will
need your car's space for another incoming family. We hope you
do not mind waiting to take a camp tour until Parent's Day (the
closing day for the session). By that point, you'll have your
own personal tour guide with lots of exciting and unique stories
to tell you about what he did at camp! |